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    chibiichigo

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    Post by chibiichigo on Fri Jul 03, 2009 1:33 am

    I have a crush on my best friend who i routinely stay up with talking for hours (Usually till around 5, 6 am) who ive been crushing on for the past oh i don't know, 3 years (Yes, i am this pathetic....No i'm not going to give up...) She trusts me more then anyone else, tells me her problems, comes to me for comfort and advice, and we cant stand being away from each other for very long (I was away for a week and we were miserable.) Now despite all of that, she doesnt and has never liked me as more then a best friend, wtf do i do exactly? Of course being her friend comes first.
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    Post by blizen on Fri Jul 03, 2009 3:38 pm

    did u hint her that u wanna go to the level yet?
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    Post by Danneh on Fri Jul 03, 2009 7:22 pm

    What I want to know is, does she understand the fact that you've always been there for her and always will try your hardest to do the same in the future?

    If I was her, I'd take you in a heartbeat. No homo.

    Of course, she's probably after that social standard, just like all the other miserable women in the world are.
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    Post by chibiichigo on Fri Jul 03, 2009 8:34 pm

    "Of course, she's probably after that social standard, just like all the other miserable women in the world are." what social standard?
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    Post by Danneh on Fri Jul 03, 2009 8:51 pm

    The "cool", "popular" type of guy.

    You know the archetype.
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    chibiichigo

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    Post by chibiichigo on Fri Jul 03, 2009 11:12 pm

    Oh, those ones that will end up working for the smarter ones like us?
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    Post by Lilly on Fri Jul 03, 2009 11:47 pm

    Girls really don't know what they want.

    Just keep her as your best friend for now. |: Not much you can do if she doesn't realize that you're the best guy out there for her.


    (Probably some real crappy advice considering how old I am.)
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    Post by michelle on Sat Jul 04, 2009 10:34 pm

    Friends first. Maybe she does have feelings for you or something.

    Maybe do something subtle to say that you do like her? Help with stuff? Compliments? Idk.

    o.o Yeah, being 12 doesn't mean my "advice" is learned through experience. Just what I thought of.
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    Post by ItzJuSt1N on Fri Oct 16, 2009 7:19 pm

    well, if you even read this and if u have made a move already, i have some advice for you:

    My girlfriend i have now, we were real close friends for 2 years and we just started dating a month and 4 weeks. We really hit it off too we care about each other and miss each other if its been two days without seeing each other and we do something every weekend.

    So i think for a relationship to work you need to be good friends with that person for a year or for a few years. Idk if that was good advice but eh w/e you might not even read this and im wasting my fingers away typing this.
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    Post by chibiichigo on Sat Oct 17, 2009 10:11 am

    asked her to homecoming at the top of the Ferris wheel. Got rejected cuz she agreed to go with my friend will cuz he got dumped. She now regrets that. Cuz hes trying to act like a boyfriend. He fails EPICALLY.
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    Post by ItzJuSt1N on Wed Oct 21, 2009 5:47 pm

    well i asked my gf to homecoming which was a gimme but if she rejected you to homecoming theres a possibility she doesnt want to date you but do what i did if you have to wait for one of her friends to ask her to go out with you thats what happened to me XD
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    Post by ItzJuSt1N on Wed Oct 21, 2009 5:52 pm

    and right now heh.. my gf is at a church thing at a far away town right now with the friend who hooked us up (i trust that she will keep her in line hopefully) bc her ex-bf will be there (who she cheated on to get back at her old bf which was a jerk) and theve made out and if theres going to be an ex wheres shes at thats she has been in lip contact and (god hopefully not) tounge contact i wanna be there to be sure nothing happens and right now all i can do is wait and hope she doesnt do anything behind my back bc that would break my heart terribly...
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    Post by Whatshername on Sun Oct 25, 2009 2:00 pm

    Christ, if she does something silly behind your back she really isn't worth it, is she now? o.o;;

    At the top of a ferris wheel? Ooh, that probably got awkward. xD...
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